Before You Say ‘I Do’—6 Bridal Shower Outfits to Shop First (2024)

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Spring is upon us which means our calendars are inevitably about to fill up with showers and I don’t mean the kind that bring May flowers. I mean the kind that feature mini cakes, huge gift boxes filled with exciting things like mix masters and monogrammed cutting boards and, ideally, a lot of champagne. That’s right, bridal shower season is almost here. While there technically isn’t a firm calendar date for bridal showers, as summer is the most popular time for wedding parties (and after-parties!), that would make early spring the unofficial start of The Shower Season.

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In recent years, there has been a strong trend toward themed ones, perhaps to inject a bit of fun into a sometimes formulaic event of “bride wears white, bride opens presents, everyone toasts the bride, everyone goes home.” Regardless of theme, most showers have two things in common: the bride will almost always want to wear white and there will be lots of champagne. With that in mind, below are some perfect bridal shower outfit ideas for some of the most popular themes.

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The Classic Bridal Shower

A classic bridal shower is usually a mid morning or mid afternoon affair that requires a virginal white outfit for the bride and a lot of present opening. If you are a guest at one of these, prepare your best “ooohs” and “aaahhhs” ahead of time so you can act delighted with each new serving spoon and blender the bride opens. Outfit-wise, I’d fully embrace this period in your life where wearing white to everything is completely acceptable and go head-to-toe tonal from your dress to your shoes and accessories.

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Hill House Home

Jacqueline dress

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Khaite

River slingback pumps

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Gucci

Jackie small shoulder bag

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Sophie Buhai

hair clip

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Staud

mini Bella dress

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Jennifer Behr

Gretta bow barette

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Khaite

Laybin jacket

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Ronny Kobo

Bartlet maxi skirt

The Garden Shower

Garden showers do sometimes take place in actual gardens so correct footwear is key here, no stilettos or anything too high that’ll sink like quicksand into grass. It’s nice to lean into the theme and dress in florals: for the bride this might mean a white dress with a subtle floral nod while for the guest this could be any floral pattern. If you typically shy away from prints, consider a bold or pastel hue—just stay away from black or navy if for no other reason than for the bride’s photos!

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Zimmermann

belted pleated printed midi dress

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Altuzarra

Watermill raffia shoulder bag

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Hill House Home

Elsie nap dress

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Maryam Nassir Zadeh

carnation scrunchie

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Zimmermann

Matchmaker rose-appliquéd maxi skirt

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Staud

Billie wedge sandals

The Afternoon Tea Shower

Arguably the most “traditional” of the bridal shower themes, an afternoon tea recalls bridal showers of bygone eras when the bride’s mother and grandmother would put out mini sandwiches and brag about their son-in-law-to-be to all of their friends. I remember my mother telling me about a bridal shower in her honor but all of the guests were her mother’s friends. Today’s tea showers still feature mini sandwiches but happily also include the bride’s actual friends as well. Any afternoon dress is a safe bet here for both bride and guest.

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J.Crew

Frances lady jacket

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Emilia Wickstead

Margie gown

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David Yurman

pearl and pavé station necklace

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Savette

Symmetry bag

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Self-Portrait

belted pleated midi dress

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Altuzarra

Medallion envelope satin clutch bag

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Manolo Blahnik

Maysale 50 buckled mules

Roxanne Assoulin

Raj gold-tone crystal earrings

The Boozy Brunch

Somewhere between a bachelorette and a traditional shower, a bridal brunch means it’s appropriate to drink in the morning. “It’s 10:30 AM in the morning, are those women drunk? Oh! It’s a bridal shower. That’s ok then, good for them!” Outfit-wise, I’d go with a chic day dress, a two-piece suit situation, or a ladylike jacket with a matching skirt. Shoe-wise, think embelisshed flats or anything in the kitten heel realm to make it comfortable enough for the day but, of course, still festive.

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Self-Portrait

cropped embellished blazer

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Self-Portrait

belted midi skirt

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Alaïa

Le Coeur shoulder bag

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Aeyde

Roda leather sandals

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Clio Peppiatt

embellished mini dress

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Clio Peppiatt

pearl bag

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Raey

single-breasted waistcoat

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Raey

Giant pleat-front suit trousers

The Couples’ co*cktail Shower

A couples’ shower is sort of an engagement party 2.0—a chance to let the men in on the fun, up the ante on the outfit choices and add martinis to the appropriate drinks list. For the bride, I’d recommend something fun and slightly OTT: feathers, sequins, perhaps even a jumpsuit. For the guest I’d stick to similar themes but opt for a fun color or interesting pattern. For the men…oh who am I kidding, no one cares what the men are wearing at these events!

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16Arlington

Hoku cropped feather-trimmed top

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16Arlington

Brisbane cropped feather-trimmed pants

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Mateo

earrings

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Khaite

Aimee clutch

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Graff

Tilda's Bow stud earrings

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Bottega Veneta

Jodie Candy micro mini knotted bag

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Asceno

Bordeaux V-back satin midi dress

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Studio Amelia

Wishbone 50 heels

The Beach Shower

Pack the SPF, we’re taking the bride to the beach! Crochet is key when it comes to events near sand and bodies of water. It’s smart enough to look elevated and festive but breathable and appropriate for warmer temps. And while a beach bridal shower doesn’t typically require an actual bathing suit, I’d have one on my bag for a much-needed dip after a day of bridal pleasantries.

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Agua by Agua Bendita

Zilia Caracola cropped crocheted top

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Agua by Agua Bendita

Arroyo Caracola printed crocheted midi skirt

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Magda Butrym

Magda mini bead-embellished crocheted tote

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A.Emery

Lucia leather sandals

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Posse

Emma vest

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Posse

Emma maxi skirt

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Loewe

small leather-trimmed basket tote

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Julietta

Le Splash earrings

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FAQs

What is the protocol for a bridal shower? ›

"You can invite whomever you would like from the wedding guest list. Keep the guest list small and manageable, don't have too many showers, and don't invite the same people to multiple showers," says Gottsman. "If someone is not invited to the wedding, they should not be invited to the shower."

What is the dress code of bride shower? ›

Bridal showers typically have three common dress code options: formal/co*cktail attire, semi-formal attire, and casual attire. Following the dress code ensures that you blend in with the atmosphere and show your respect for the occasion.

What should mom wear to a bridal shower? ›

If this is the case, the mother of the bride's bridal shower outfit should veer on the elegant-but-fuss-free side: a simple dress or even a sophisticated blouse with a skirt or dress pants should do the trick. If the bridal shower is an evening event, then keep on reading for other cues as to what to wear…

Who should not host a bridal shower? ›

Traditional etiquette dictates that the maid of honor—not the mother of the bride—should host the shower. Nancy is a freelance writer for MarthaStewart.com. Some etiquette rules were meant to fade away into oblivion, like the one about family members of the bride not hosting her bridal shower.

Who pays for the bridal shower traditionally? ›

In short, the host is the one who pays for the bridal shower—or at least some of it. Most commonly, this is the maid of honor, but the couple's relatives, friends or even the to-be-weds themselves can all pitch in to cover the cost of the wedding shower.

Should the mother of the bride plan the bridal shower? ›

"Under optimum circ*mstances, the attendants in the bridal party would host the shower," said Gottsman. According to Gottsman, the mother of the bride (MOB) should be a guest, but should not participate.

Does the mother of the bride pay for the bridal shower? ›

Although once upon a time it was expected that the bride's family would foot the bridal shower bill, modern society has changed the rules. Nowadays, the person (or people) hosting the bridal shower are responsible for covering the costs associated with the shower.

Does the brides mom plan the bridal shower? ›

Traditionally, the mother of the bride doesn't host the bridal shower (the maid of honor typically assumes the chief shower-planning role), however, your daughter will likely want you to be a part of the celebration.

What is the best color dress for a bridal shower? ›

While white seems to be the shade most brides choose for a bridal shower, both Brickman and Cartledge agree that there's no rule on what color you should wear. "A lot of my brides don't opt for white at all, instead choosing a color that makes them feel confident or matches their wedding," Cartledge says.

What color to wear to a bridal shower? ›

Wear pastels, neutrals and bright colors to match the celebratory tone of the occasion. Floral prints are a great go-to. Wear something comfortable in case there are bridal shower games. Accentuate a neutral dress or top with bold shoes or accessories.

What color does the bride wear to the bridal shower? ›

It's traditional for the bride, or the couple, to wear white at the bridal shower. This also includes pastel shades, like blush or soft blue, that can be photographed as looking white. All other colors—like bold, bright colors and prints—are fair game.

What is the role of the mother of the bride at the bridal shower? ›

Whether she's handling your bridal shower or greeting out-of-town guests once they arrive in town for your nuptials, the mother of the bride is the official hostess and should focus on helping each attendee feel welcome.

What color dress should the mother of the bride not wear? ›

The bride's gown is usually in shades like ivory or champagne, so make sure that you don't choose any shade of white. If you want to wear neutral colors, go for off-white, beige, taupe, and grey, as they are a different shade from a traditional bridal gown.

Is the mother of the groom involved in the bridal shower? ›

Offer the Mother of the Groom a Role in the Event

"One thing to consider is offering the mother of the groom one major role or contribution for the shower," Tombs recommends. For example, perhaps she provides the flowers for the lunch or maybe she oversees the invite list or catering.

Do I bring a gift to a bridal shower? ›

If you're attending a bridal shower, you should always bring a gift with you to congratulate the bride. This is considered good bridal shower etiquette. Even if you're a part of the bridal party or wedding party, a gift is still necessary.

How much do you give for a bridal shower gift? ›

If you're only invited to the shower and wedding, it's suggested to divide your budget by 30-70. Considering that the average wedding gift in 2023 was $150*, reverse calculation brings us to a budget of $50 to $75. So, if you're pondering whether $100 is enough for a bridal shower gift, the answer is a definite yes.

Do you give a gift if you throw a bridal shower? ›

Traditionally, hosts of the bridal shower will also give the bride a gift. If you're hosting a shower alone (which is quite rare), a small, personal gift would be more than appropriate.

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